Dating immature men
In this week’s Success Newsletter, I would like to discuss immature men, how to identify them and why they are so damaging and harmful.
First a quick update: **** “Mackenzie Phillips – False Memory Syndrome”: Phillips, daughter of the famous singer and musician John Phillips of The Mamas and Papas, claims she had a long-term incestuous relationship with her father and says he injected her with drugs from a young age.
Men who are immature may very well be a lot of fun and easy going in the early stages of a relationship but as time goes by and things get more serious, it can start becoming a problem.
If you’re worried that your man might be immature then here are some signs that will tell you whether he is or not.
You’re at your best and your new man or woman idealizes you, and you idealize him or her.
Differences in the level of emotional maturity or lack of, may not be obvious in the early stages of a relationship when everything is wonderful – no obvious differences that cause problems and no serious arguments.
And if you or the other person is emotionally immature, it begins to show in the way you: 1) Deal with your own emotions People who are emotionally mature are more able to put feelings into perspective before automatically verbalizing or acting them out.
They also take responsibility for their every action, word and thought – and the resulting consequences.
(Photo: Terrell Woods) …he has no sense of the importance of family, and never makes an effort to understand what you need emotionally. He can be totally in love with you, but if he also forsees a future of drama, petty fights, and a life of being endlessly criticized and misunderstood, he’ll eventually snap and decide to leave, even if in his gut he really doesn’t want to.
And it’s all because we all suffer from minor cases of “Relationship Immaturity”. If we’re not careful, our immature behaviours can unconsciously grow around us like weeds, which is why we have to keep track of them and pull them out regularly so that they don’t overshadow the precious flower struggling to bloom underneath.